Research Reality

Enabled by technology, scientists and researchers are getting to the bottom of what makes men and women behave within the human mating process, and in most cases it’s the complete opposite of what anyone ever thought. In the new book “What Do Women Want? Adventures in the Science of Female Desire” (Ecco), author Daniel Bergner upends long-standing myths about women and sex — everything from the nature of attraction and pursuit to the prevalence of taboo fantasies to monogamy itself.

Like Mr. Bergner’s book, Last Call is also not meant to continue the myth-based conversation, it is meant to end it with the facts on how males and females are programmed to operate. But with the classification systems and tools provided throughout Last Call, especially in Part V, “Future State,” order can quickly be restored to the current state heterosexual hook-up and dating world. How you ask? By relying on the most important quality that sets us apart from all other species on earth: morality.

Morality will be reintroduced to the heterosexual hook-up and dating world with universally accepted boundaries—boundaries that can no longer be unilaterally adjusted for the sake of convenience. They can only be customized through upfront agreements within a particular partnership. One positive sign is that if the male can be taught to contain his hormones, at least when in an office environment, then certainly the female can be taught just the same, no matter how strong her hormonal instincts.

As discussed in Chapter 7, “Mechanical Females,” the American Medical Association documented the prevalence of female outrageous behavior while on vacation. Then as discussed in Chapter 8, “Inherent Differences,” and Chapter 13, “The Great Fashion Divide,” The Wall Street Journal and other publications exposed how females are breaking office dress codes across America, while slowly admitting to doing so in order to advance their incomes and careers. With both findings, it is pretty obvious how the female hormones often prefer not to be contained when amongst others, whether while on vacation, or just at the office for the day.

From Chapter 8, “Inherent Differences,” we were awaken to the fact that while male erections and his feeling of sexual desire are almost always connecting (penis to brain), the female of our species is often not, that is, her genitalia arousal and sexual desires (vagina to brain) are disconnecting. Simultaneously, in Chapter 15, “Power Parts,” we learned how, due to proximity, the part of the female’s brain which ties to her sexuality is right next to the part which controls her feet. Thus, there is a very likely “without self-consciousness” connection between her sexuality switch and her love for shoes, and how they enhance her bodily appearance and/or showcase her foot flesh and toes.

Acknowledging what is happening, to what extent it applies, and then connecting to the facts are the keys. Table 16.1 summarizes twelve facts—think “differential dozen”—that research has established relative to the heterosexual hook-up and dating world. Looking at all of these findings collectively should really enlighten any who still care enough to try and make things better.

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Research Study Conclusion Masculine Male

Effeminate Female

1

Participates in public nudity on vacation

not allowed

yes

2

Risque dressing for work

not allowed

yes

3

Genitalia arousal and sexual desire disconnected

rarely no

often yes

4

Brain and feet connected sexually

no

yes

5

More likely to flaunt flesh when ovulating

n/a

yes

6

More likely to cheat when ovulating

n/a

yes

7

Loses sex-drive with the same sex partner

minimally

consistently

8

Increased sexual attraction to bad boy behaviors

n/a

yes

9

Sexual partner selection independent of good genes

no

yes

10

Has monogamous-type bonding gene

some

no

11

More and better orgasms with richer partners

no

yes

12

Has a cheat gene when fit

no

yes

Game on


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